The relationships do not collapse in a single day, they decay under a thin layer of pattern, repetitive reaction and unspoken fears which slowly stack walls between two people. Astrology provides a thought-provoking prism through which one can examine these trends, and how some of these qualities, when unchecked, are capable of deforming the bond and relationship without much noise. Through the analysis of how each zodiac sign can cause tension unintentionally, we come to understand the topics of growth, responsibility, and indebted relationships in all varieties of committed relationships today.
Aries Impulsiveness
Aries tends to wreck relationships because they tend to make actions without thinking of how their words or actions will impact on the other individual. Their ambitions to be in control and drive on high gears may make the partners feel like they are not being heard, they feel hurried, or sidelined emotionally.
Taurus Stubbornness
Taurus has a tendency to sink their feet in by being stuck to their point of view despite the fact that when it would have been better to yield, they insist on their own point of view. This unwillingness to change may cause gridlock of emotions, when minor problems remain much longer than they should and slowly develop resentment.
Gemini Restlessness
In its quest to pursue fresh stimulation and mental diversity, Gemini can accidentally damage any relationships because consistency can be suffocating to him/her. As thinkers become disjointed in their communication or forget promises in the fear of missing out on the next good thought, trust will silently slip away.
Cancer Overprotection
Cancer is so concerned that they strive to protect their loved ones and do not reach the border of control or emotional overinvolvement. They also might be so sensitive to what they perceive to be slight and retreat without any issues being resolved and feelings misconstrued.
Leo Pride
Leo has an innate confidence which can be his downfall where pride interferes with his weaknesses in the face of conflict. There is a high desire of recognition and appreciation which can result in tension when they receive constructive feedback as criticism instead of a chance to develop.
Virgo Criticism
The sharp eye of Virgo may change to be rather useful or even hypercritical when the expectations are not conveyed with empathy. In the process of seeking to better themselves, they might be so much obsessed with what is wrong about them that their partner is always judged instead of being accepted.
Scorpio Control
The intensity of scorpio builds loyalty, but it also may be suspicion or a desire to shape the results and feelings. When trust is put to the test, they might tend to protect their emotions such that they find it hard to talk honestly and distance silently ensues.
Capricorn Distance
Capricorn is usually well disciplined and focused on long term objectives at times sacrificing on emotional openness. Their introvertive character may isolate the partners particularly when they can be offered practical solutions instead of sympathetic insight.
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